Here we are again. Or
here I am again. It’s hard to believe
that I first did a New Year’s Eve blog four years ago, and that I started this
blog in December four years ago. A LOT
has happened since then. Actually, a LOT
has happened this year. I guess I’ll
review the year a little and try to put it all into some sort of perspective. And of course I'll put in the requisite pictures of the cat kids.
The biggest item this year of course was the new house. I can honestly say that the new house consumed
me from May through the end of the year.
Especially from the June closing date until the end of September, when
all the interior work was done and I was mostly unpacked and I began to feel
like the house was my home. During that
time, everything I did was house-related.
And of course, dealing with all the details around trying to rent the
old house only added to it. I feel good
about it now though. I love my new house. Really love it. Things I’ll do to it in the future will be
cosmetic or minor. Plus the old house is
rented so I won’t be carrying two mortgages as long as it stays rented. I think I’ve finally made the switch to
feeling at home here and thinking of the other house as a rental property and
not my home. My cats and I all struggled
a little with that switch. It really is
harder to make changes as you get older.
Another item from this year is that I got a really large
raise. Work has been going well, and I’ve
been staying busy, both at work and with my national associations. I actually got elected President –elect of
one of my associations! So in 2013 I’ll be
President-elect and in 2014 I’ll be President.
I was pretty delighted to be elected. Anyway, the raise was because we got a new
department chair last year. When he came
in he made a lot of changes including a new evaluation system for faculty. He also promised the faculty that he would
bring our salaries up to at least 35% of the national average (our school
having notoriously low faculty salaries).
And he kept that promise! So
between the new evaluation/incentive system and increasing the overall faculty
salaries, I got a nice raise. It allowed
me to buy a new house without selling my old one and carry two mortgages if
necessary, so I was happy with that.
Vacation to Utah this year was outstanding. I got to go with a friend of mine who hasn’t
been able to go along for several years, so we really enjoyed it. It would have been nice if my sister could
have gone also, but sometimes schedules can’t be made to match up no matter
what you do.
Another item I have to include in this year, much as I would
prefer not to, is that parts of my family are feuding. This has been going on essentially all year (actually
I guess it started in the Fall of 2011) and has devolved to the point of people
not speaking to each other or having anything to do with each other. One of my minor resolutions for 2013 will be
to stay the hell out of it. Trying to do
anything to solve it only antagonizes folks – as I discovered. So the feud will continue until they work it
out themselves.
Self-reflection time: First (and most important) I worry that I’m
turning into a grouchy old woman. I got
a bunch of Thanksgiving pictures from my sister that she took when she was here
for Thanksgiving, and I’m looking sour in more of them than I’m looking
happy. I don’t want to be a sour, grouchy old lady,
so I guess it’s time to consciously work on both my attitude and on my facial
expression. Or maybe the attitude work
will take care of the face. Although, I
didn’t feel like I was being grouchy at Thanksgiving, and I enjoyed
myself. But you’d have never known that
from my expressions. So I guess I’ll
consciously work on both.
Second: I need to get
my finances back under control. I went
crazy after buying the house. New carpet
and ceramic tile. New wood flooring, new interior paint. New furniture throughout the house. My finances are currently more out of control
than they’ve ever been, and because I have a good credit record, the credit
card companies just joyfully increase my limits. They love me!
Waaaaaaay past time to STOP SHOPPING!
So that’s high on my list for 2013.
Third: Health. I’m so
not getting any younger. The vacation
this year where I barely made it up my favorite hike really hit me hard. It’s way past time that I pay more attention
to my health – including my diet and getting more exercise. I just am not very fond of foods that are
good for me. That and my crazy life
style make eating healthy sort of difficult, but I know I can do better than I
have been. And I’ll need to get back on
an exercise regimen so I don’t die out there hiking next year.
So I guess those are the major things that have happened
this year and the major resolutions I’ll try working on for next year. It's been a good year, but I'm ready to let it go and move forward.