The biggest item this year of course was the new house. I can honestly say that the new house consumed me from May through the end of the year. Especially from the June closing date until the end of September, when all the interior work was done and I was mostly unpacked and I began to feel like the house was my home. During that time, everything I did was house-related. And of course, dealing with all the details around trying to rent the old house only added to it. I feel good about it now though. I love my new house. Really love it. Things I’ll do to it in the future will be cosmetic or minor. Plus the old house is rented so I won’t be carrying two mortgages as long as it stays rented. I think I’ve finally made the switch to feeling at home here and thinking of the other house as a rental property and not my home. My cats and I all struggled a little with that switch. It really is harder to make changes as you get older.
Another item from this year is that I got a really large raise. Work has been going well, and I’ve been staying busy, both at work and with my national associations. I actually got elected President –elect of one of my associations! So in 2013 I’ll be President-elect and in 2014 I’ll be President. I was pretty delighted to be elected. Anyway, the raise was because we got a new department chair last year. When he came in he made a lot of changes including a new evaluation system for faculty. He also promised the faculty that he would bring our salaries up to at least 35% of the national average (our school having notoriously low faculty salaries). And he kept that promise! So between the new evaluation/incentive system and increasing the overall faculty salaries, I got a nice raise. It allowed me to buy a new house without selling my old one and carry two mortgages if necessary, so I was happy with that.
Vacation to Utah this year was outstanding. I got to go with a friend of mine who hasn’t been able to go along for several years, so we really enjoyed it. It would have been nice if my sister could have gone also, but sometimes schedules can’t be made to match up no matter what you do.
Another item I have to include in this year, much as I would prefer not to, is that parts of my family are feuding. This has been going on essentially all year (actually I guess it started in the Fall of 2011) and has devolved to the point of people not speaking to each other or having anything to do with each other. One of my minor resolutions for 2013 will be to stay the hell out of it. Trying to do anything to solve it only antagonizes folks – as I discovered. So the feud will continue until they work it out themselves.
Self-reflection time: First (and most important) I worry that I’m
turning into a grouchy old woman. I got
a bunch of Thanksgiving pictures from my sister that she took when she was here
for Thanksgiving, and I’m looking sour in more of them than I’m looking
happy. I don’t want to be a sour, grouchy old lady,
so I guess it’s time to consciously work on both my attitude and on my facial
expression. Or maybe the attitude work
will take care of the face. Although, I
didn’t feel like I was being grouchy at Thanksgiving, and I enjoyed
myself. But you’d have never known that
from my expressions. So I guess I’ll
consciously work on both.
Second: I need to get
my finances back under control. I went
crazy after buying the house. New carpet
and ceramic tile. New wood flooring, new interior paint. New furniture throughout the house. My finances are currently more out of control
than they’ve ever been, and because I have a good credit record, the credit
card companies just joyfully increase my limits. They love me!
Waaaaaaay past time to STOP SHOPPING!
So that’s high on my list for 2013.
Third: Health. I’m so
not getting any younger. The vacation
this year where I barely made it up my favorite hike really hit me hard. It’s way past time that I pay more attention
to my health – including my diet and getting more exercise. I just am not very fond of foods that are
good for me. That and my crazy life
style make eating healthy sort of difficult, but I know I can do better than I
have been. And I’ll need to get back on
an exercise regimen so I don’t die out there hiking next year.
So I guess those are the major things that have happened
this year and the major resolutions I’ll try working on for next year. It's been a good year, but I'm ready to let it go and move forward.